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  • Rebranding | Winds of Change

    Rebranding | Winds of Change

    Change begins when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.  Change takes time though.  It takes time for the seeds to begin growing within, time to understand and process, time for the growth to mature, and time for the old self to die and fall away.

    When Jaa1 left me in charge of this website she inadvertently planted those seeds of creativity in my mind.  However the scope for major change is always limited by both stagnation and procrastination, one attracting the other like mosquitoes to a still pool of water and ultimately it’s desperation not inspiration that start the engine of productivity.   For me that desperation came from being comfortable waiting for the growth to mature, it felt wasteful.  Try to walk by my side one day and you’ll get a feel for the swiftness of how I always want to get to where I’m going.

    I’m changing again, like a disease that mutates except this is a good disease in that I know what it wants.  It wants to turn me into something else.  That’s not too terrible is it?  Most people would give anything to be turned into something else.

    khIn this case, I want to turn myself into an artist, one who expresses femdom as the art form it truly is.  The second coming of Vātsyāyana perhaps , rewriting the Kama Sutra of modern day seduction.  To accomplish that, the old self had to die and fall away, regardless of how successful she was.  It’s one thing to be successful, it’s quite another to be the very best at what one does.

    It’s hard to explain to you my vision.

    I’m sure though Vātsyāyana , Aphrodite, Rati or Freyja would have been bemused at the frivolousness  of Twitter, Facebook and the like.  I too choose not to portray my intelligence in 140 characters or less, the square root of which being the average intelligence level of the men following that ilk.

    Instead I demand a higher class of man, one who would take the time to appreciate the depth of this website.  For him this site is a veritable imaginarium, a gateway to understanding one’s fantasies.  It’s why although I start out in your mind as a Goddess, I end up being your therapist in most cases.

    Change is the only constant.  I have to throw a rock into the pond every now and then to upset the mosquitos.

    Go ahead, scratch your head all you want, it’ll all be clear soon and I guarantee you when you see it you’ll all collectively say “ahhhh”

    Isn’t that what a good therapist does anyways?  haha

     

    Jaa2

     

     

     

  • Climbing From Darkness | 6 Month Review

    Climbing From Darkness | 6 Month Review

     

    I’m officially the #1 Thailand Mistress now if judging by website popularity as this website which was started by the original Jaa 6 years ago jumped up 804,443 places in world website rankings to break the top 1 million and sit as the most popularly visited Thailand Mistress website in Asia as we rest at 940,937 in the world now.  I’ve done it by following these two principles, the first of which is;

     

    It’s not knowing what to do, it’s doing what you know.
    Tony Robbins

     

    I know how to seduce better than any Thailand  Mistress and I’ll bet i’m within the top 10 of World Mistress’s on the topic of seduction and mental bdsm play.  My girlfriend, well ‘she’ is a ‘he’, but he’s gayer than a tap dancing hyena ; s/he takes care of the photos that you have saved on your computer … admit it, you do.  Andrew, my creative writing teacher verbally insults me about my grammar and then corrects everything so I don’t make an ass of myself in my stories.  It’s a good team, each of us doing what we know how to do best.

    Those who know me not as a Thailand Mistress but know me outside my Thailand Mistress life would tell you that I bitch about two things, and two things only.  I live by this mantra …

     

    Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.
    Tony Robbins

     

    success… which makes my life unbelievably busy.  I complain about it ad nauseam but I wouldn’t be who I am if I wasn’t always trying to “get something accomplished” and here’s my list of things I needed to accomplish the first day this website was passed over to me on December 13th, 2014 :

    1. Get the website back to how popular it was when I started with Bangkok’s original Tease & Denial Mistress –  Jaa in 2012.
    2. Start a Twitter account, make it about my personality instead of self-promotion (which is what I hate about Twitter) and get to 1,000 followers by December 13th, 2015.
    3. Hit 100 session inquiries a month, which is what I figure is what the other top Thailand Mistress … Midori must have.

    Look, I’ve had a hell of a month.  It started with a breast cancer scare, was filled with frustrating all day waits at lo-so clinics before @ObediantOne on Twitter rescued me and a private clinic confirmed the lumps were just cysts.  I had an operation for one of them right away, and have spent the rest of the month condo shopping.  So your sweet Thailand Mistress is taking a break for 3 days as sort of a mid-year vacation.  Before that starts today though, let’s take a look at what this Thailand Mistress has done right , and what needs to be done still starting with the website.

     

    Thailand Mistress Pasaya #1 in Asia

    May 23, 2011 was the day that Thailand Mistress Jaa moved from her 2 year old Google Blogspot website to this Thailand Mistress domain jaa4u.com and you can see from the vertical purple line where I started that it’s been a long 6 month climb to get back to the average daily visits that Thailand Mistress Jaa had for many years before.  I started with her around December of 2013 so I’ve seen and experienced the whole peak to valley and back to peak cycle of turbulence brought on by both her desire to retire and the amount of time it honestly takes to have the experience to fully be a Thailand Mistress.

    That climb has moved me up almost a million places in rankings, well past all other Thailand Mistress contenders which is to be expected given that I have the only dynamic website of them all with new content every week in blog stories, photos, and videos.

    Thailand Mistress Pasaya #1 in Asia

     

    It’s not all as perfect as I would like though as I’m in the middle of the Google ranking on the first page if you search for Thailand Mistress , or Thailand Mistress Bangkok with others like Mistress Lorita placing above me on search even though she only just broke through the 5 millionth highest website.  Whatever you’re doing chick, share the love,  cuz you’re doing something right with SEO and I can’t figure out what it is.  I think if I had the name Thailand Mistress or Thailand Mistress Bangkok in my website name it would help but I really don’t know.  We’re good at content my sissy friend and I, but not so good at SEO stuff.  I’m sure one of you guys must be an SEO wizard and would like to be part of Thailand Mistress team jaa4u for the next 6 months as we move toward my next goal which is to reach 500,000 by January 1st, 2016.

    As much fun as the website stuff has been, I have to say that we have had the most fun with my Twitter feed.  I choose to write about the sessions that are remarkable in some way and instead of just being silent waiting for the next amazing guy to show up for a session I enjoy trying to get out my personality and what’s on my mind through Twitter.  Maybe i’m too far out there for most to understand , some tweets that I think are funny just go right over people’s heads I think ..

     

    At least some of my 426 followers find that funny, I wish more would haha.  I’m gonna keep trying to be me so if you are one of those guys who reads my blog over and over trying to get who I am follow my Twitter , if you read between the lines a bit you’ll really understand what’s on my mind day in and day out.  It’s hard trying to learn your style of humor when the only thing that passes for that here come with sound effects telling you exactly when you should laugh.  Maybe once I pass 1000 followers which is my goal by New Year you’ll either had adjusted to my humor or i will have gotten better.   Until then I’ll keep saving my Twitter with sexy ass tweets …

     

     

    inspirationOf all the Thailand Mistress , World Mistress , and maybe even Universal Mistress’s I bet I have the most Ass Worship session requests.  I used to think often about which Thailand Mistress has the most session requests and I set my goal of having 100 based on that desire to have the most.  Now that I’ve passed that goal I see why the other most popular Thailand Mistress has a stable of girls because it’s just not possible to handle all requests.  Yet, my business model is different than most, I don’t desire to be the Fast Food factory of bdsm sessions.

    I have Mistress Wael to fill two needs, the older clients who feel it’s easier to relate to a 37 year old girl more than a 28 year old girl, and those who just want what I can’t do very well and that is to give a world class massage with Tease & Denial.  More than that though, she is an angel, she even refers to herself as one haha.  I agree, she’s a real diamond in the rough, people who see her agree too.

     

    I’m looking for another very high quality Thailand Mistress but don’t hold your breath.  She needs to be university educated, sexy, hot, intelligent, probably been abroad, fluent in English, and can think for herself.  Trying to find a girlfriend here with that last quality here is as rare as an ice cube in the Sahara.  Trying to find one who fits all 7 is as rare as a tasty school lunch 😛

    Passing that last goal of 100 session requests a month has allowed me to really be picky about who I see too.  Since I can’t clone myself, and I can only do 2 sessions a day it doesn’t take a math genius to figure out I can do at most 50 sessions a month taking 5 days off as a break.  So last month I got 120 requests, I can’t really throw 70 out the door as some don’t follow through no matter how much I email them, but i can throw 20-30 out.  Thus, any guy who remotely tries to challenge me , gets a nice personal go fuck yourself reply.

     

     

    Jaa was a great Thailand Mistress , but guess what, I’m a great Thailand Mistress as well.  Choose your words carefully in your first email, you have to beat 69 other guys to stay out of the trash can.

    So what are my goals going ahead?

    1. 1000 Twitter followers by January 1st making me the most popular Thailand Mistress on Twitter.
    2. This website in the top 500,000 websites in the world, putting as much distance between me and the #2 Thailand Mistress website.  My plan to do that?  Well two things are coming…
    3. My first Amazon Kindle book is about the top 20 sessions I’ve had in the last 2 years, coming soon.
    4. Video clip store both generic and custom made within a month, now that @ObediantOne has sent me best video camera 🙂  You’re amazing.

     

    Ok, that’s it, i’m off for 3 days, Sunday to Tuesday.  It’s been a really fun 6 months, really looking forward to the next 1/2 year.

    jaa2 xx

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  • Death Defying Derring-Do

    Death Defying Derring-Do

    March 20, 2010

    To Whom it May Concern ;

    After an appropriate period of deliberation, I have come to the decision to tender my resignation from this workplace, effective immediately.

    Please know that I still maintain a high level of respect for you as a supervisor and a manager, and I thank you sincerely for the support and assistance you have offered me in each of those roles.  I have been proud to work for this design shop over the past year, it has been a journey that has provided me an unparalleled foundation to move forward to new and exciting opportunities.

    To that end, I have decided to become a professional pirate.  It has always been a dream of mine to live the life of a swashbuckling bad girl, answering to none and master of all.  Once my crew of submissive men is assembled, we shall take to the empty unknown of the high seas to pursue fortune, fame, and hair raising adventure.

    Our path may not be filled with the sweet comfort and hi-tec wonder that your shop provides, but we shall nonetheless move forward to carve a name for ourselves in the name of femdom and death defying derring-do.  Once I have all deck man at my foot and the Jolly Roger is flapping high above me, I believe I will find my true calling.

    Please note that I am currently accepting applications for First Officer, if you are at all interested in applying.  I will provide a full food and medical plan, which will offer exclusive meals from my ass along with coverage of all maladies other than scurvy and the occasional bout of rickets.

    Sincerely,

    Goddess

     

    I penned that resignation letter what seems like a very long time ago at a job that sewed the seeds for my eventual true calling.

     

    You see, when I wrote jokingly in my recent story saying I was going to be the next Dread Pirate Roberts I didn’t seriously think that i would actually become the Dread Pirate Roberts.  In The Princess Bride though, Wesley was able to assume the pirate’s name.   A trick that I don’t think I can get away with if I start telling you my name is Jaa.  Or can I?

     

     

    So here we are.  I am now indeed the Dread Pirate Mistress Jaa the 2nd, as the old Dread Pirate Mistress Jaa has now officially retired and is living well off on an island in the Carribean surrounded by rich hunky men with 6 pack stomachs.  Good for her!  I will say something about Jaa.  She is more genius than you know.  Every time I asked her about this business she always told me it is just a rope to help her climb.  Not so much to climb out of poverty but to climb towards her dreams and goals.  She has achieved every goal she has imagined for herself, and she did it within 5 years.    I graduated University, in New Zealand nonetheless, with honors 5 years ago and there is nobody in that University that I went to, now or before, who is smarter than Jaa.

    Let’s leave it at that and leave her be.

    First thing to do is to officially quit my other job by handing in my resignation letter, something which I have to admit I’ve always wanted to do in dramatic fashion.  I wanted to tell my boss who was always telling me “you better change your attitude or else” just what exactly “or else” is and that i chose it for myself.  I’d like to say he wasn’t impressed with my humor, but rather he’s just to fucking stupid a human being to understand comedy.

    With that taken care of I bought myself an eye patch, a hook and booked my first professional photo shoot for what was yesterday afternoon.  Hey here’s a good idea, let’s put me in a stuffy room with no air and all windows so the sun can make me feel like a squeezed lime as I pose half naked in 50 degree heat.  I’m so used to having deck-hands lick the sweat off my body that the photography artist had to tell me to stop wiggling my feet every time I felt a bead of sweat meander it’s way from my toe to my heel.

    You know what a perfect moment is?  It’s that moment where you don’t want to trust someone with a secret … like what I do for a living … and then realize you can because he’s the perfect person to tell.  When the artist asked me for what purpose do I need the photos to look so classy and dominant I hesitated to tell him.  It wasn’t until we were looking at the proofs back in his studio that I saw that the logo for his business card was him on his knees with his face buried in a girl’s ass.  I opened my Gallery app on my phone, flipped to my videoed session last week where i made the guy follow me around my condo with his face in my ass and made him watch.  I saw him swallow when he looked from my phone to my ass which was half coming out of my dress and then to my eye.  His look had both lust and understanding and we knew we had a perfect match for the photo shoot.

     

    I’ll have the photos within 6 days, that’s time enough for you swabs to board my good ship Pasaya, get on your knees and declare your loyalty to your new Pirate Domina.  Hmm, is that an oxymoron?  Maybe, maybe not.  My treasure chest fills with men’s hearts that i steal while they struggle to claim the bounty for perfect servitude which is my more than perfect pussy.

    We’ve set sail.  Raise a glass of Rum with me boys.

    “To the pain!”

     

     

     

    Jaa the 2nd xx

     

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