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  • Public Humiliation | Athens, Greece

    Public Humiliation | Athens, Greece

    Public Humiliation @ The Mall , Athens  Greece

     

    I saw her first.

    Tall , volumptuous with long silky brown hair that was draped over her slighly shorter boyfriends head as she leaned her cheek against his coming up on the escalator.  Her low cut yellow halter top was simple enough , but it was greatly accentuated by her small but perfectly rounded breasts  – and her magnetic protruding pink nipple which stretched the malleable fabric – just so.

    I’m a great admirer of beauty , female or otherwise.   I reckon that I compare favourably to her , save my height disadvantage.  That I’m not tall is my greatest regret.

    Her boyfreind was cute too , I’d do him in an instant.  So I was impressed that though I was looking at them both with hungering eyes that he didn’t even toss a glance my direction as we approached one another being that I was on the down escalator.

    “My ass” I thought , “he’s not looking over at me because he can’t see my ass” which is a reasonable thought as the perfectly shaped roundness of my butt is my greatest lure.

    Damn what a lucky girl.  To have a man who’s eyes are so faithful to her and only her , that kind of love and devotion is legendary.

    public humiliation the mall athens greeceStill, just before the moment where we passed one another happened , I had my “I want to fuck you” look ready for him.  I knew I looked stunningly hot yesterday , the intense heat driving me to wear paper thin see through dress material … and the one I was wearing Thursday was especially alluring since it was pure white allowing all my curves – right down to my also white panties to show through.

    Surely he’d throw me a wanting look.

    But nothing, nada.

    My slave , on the other hand , a drooling slack jawed mess of a man as he stared in disbelief at the sheer beauty of the Greek goddess about to pass us.

    Perhaps that lovely couple didn’t toss us a look , but the older fat lady directly behind them with her thin heavy grey spectacles sure as hell did … as I yanked violently on the leash attached to my slaves cock through the zipper space of his trousers.

    At the same time my right index finger went to his chin and lifted it up the way a teacher would raise the chin of a child to scold him in class.

    As it was my left hand that was walking his dick with the translucent wire , I had to turn profile to him in order to scold him so.

    “Cock – A – Doodle –  Dooo …… Cock – A – Doodle – Dooo … I fucked up Mistress” he bellowed out right there in the middle of the Athens Mall- as he had been previously taught to do anytime my finger went to his chin.

    Thus the reason the fat lady had no choice but to gawk at us on the lift.

     

     

    The backstory behind his behaviour , or immediate obedience perhaps – on the lift – has it’s roots in Bangkok , not Greece where we’re vacationing on his Mistress’s Girlfriend trip as he sees what it’s like to truly be a Mistress’s pet for a week.

    There’s a restaurant in The Helix quarter of Emporium’s Emquartier mall back home , the name escapes me at the moment … “Royal – something or other” , definitely has the word Royal in the name – nice pricey seafood place on the 6th floor , across from my favourite Hagen Dazs ice cream stand.

    Lukkaithong-femdom-jaa4uAnyways, as the story goes , when you’re ready to order food in that joint , there’s a button on the table you press to alert the staff – and it has the short sound of a rooster’s morning crow.  Just a short “caw cAWW” sound mind you , not the full “cock – a – doodle – do”.

    But that’s what went through my mind you see when I first heard it – why not the full cock-a – doodle – doo ?  How hillarious and annoying would that be if somebody had the gall to keep pressing the button so it did make the full sound?

    Like a kid’s miscevious twitching fingers, I had to know.

    This guy I’m with now , that was the location for our first bdsm session date, back oh … I think in April , or perhaps it was May.

    On such occasions, it’s important that I get guys to do something for me they wouldn’t normally be asked to do on a “date” (I use that term loosely and with a bite of my cheek because a Mistress doesn’t look at such a thing as a normal date – the way you guys would , so keep it in mind that I use it here for posterity sake only)

     

    There’s a few ways to get a guy to willingly step outside his comfort zone.  Obviously I’m not going to share them all with you here on this blog because – where would the mystery in our future sessions come from , right?

    But I will share this one nuance of a common manipulation technique with you which is basically : find common ground and use it as leverage on my date.

     

    Our common ground for that particular evening were the two pretentious young Thai girls sitting at the table to our right who were on what was presumably a business lunch date with two much older Singaporean business men.

    My date noticed right away that my ear was leaning in on their conversation.  I can’t help it.  I notice everything around me when I go out,

    It’s like I’m assigned to the special investigations unit of The Pretentious Police , and my job is to always assess people and not only what their true motives are , but judge them on the techinques they’re using to get their agenda accomplished.

    In other words, I’m keenly aware people are fake and somewhat less astute in the study of human interaction than I am , and I derive great enjoyment from spying on women particulary, just to pick up their mistakes as they try in vain to climb their social ladders.

     

    “It’s a business lunch” my slave offered.

    “It’s not, they’re just meeting for the first time – all four of them” I replied.

    “How do you know that?”

    I rolled my eyes , the answer was so obvious “because she had to explain what she does – she told him she owns a business selling purses that she orders from oversees – presumably China … she wanted to establish herself as someone equally important.”

    “So?”

    “Soooo … you don’t explain how you make money in the world to someone you’ve met many times ,  threfore it’s a first encounter.”  Then I gestured to my sexy but conservative black dress top I was wearing “she chose to wear something quite revealing for a business lunch , see ..” as I tossed a sideways glance her way , “that’s a lot of cleavage to show for business attire wouldn’t you agree?”

    Then I threw the conversation back at him “what have you picked up from their interaction?”

    My slave answered back with the perception of a blind sloth “Well I thought it was a business lunch , but now that you mention it, the two men are trying to pick up the girls and the girls are looking for a sugar daddy.”

    “No, only one is, the one who has a purse shop , she dragged her friend here but she’s not interested , you can tell by how often she’s playing with Facebook on her phone.  The Singaporean on the left , the older of the two men , he’s greatly interested in the purse girl , but his friend, not business associate has already decided that these girls are too far beneath him.”

    “How do you k…..”

    “Because he’s taken  over the conversation , lecturing the girls on his start up venture – Boogle – a block chain Singaporean founded internet search engine – that he’s a part of , perhaps a venture capitalist.”

     

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    I loved the part of the conversation over there when the man mentioned ‘block chain’ and she proudly cooed that she invests her company’s profits in BitCoin and that she’s made a fortune as it’s climbing back to 20,000 .   Fuck I wanted to tell her ‘good luck with that’ as I’ve long since sold my BitCoin investment last month when it finally recovered 11,000 and I got out at break even.

    Anyways, the chick was way over her head over there.  Despite her immaculate English – better than mine actually – and her alluring cleavage , this fish was too big for her and while no doubt she was going to offer up her pussy willingly later that day – it wasn’t going to land anything but a nice cumshot across her face.

    What I wanted to do was to break up their little tete-a-tete over there with a little show of our own , so I had to explain to my slave the futility of what was going on over at their table.

    Once he caught on , we just sat in silence , the corner of our mouths curled up with a wry smile as we listened in on the Boogle conversation and I’d wink at him now and then whenever the Thai girl was trying too hard to push herself up in his eyes.

    He’d nod in agreement and we’d listen in again … all the while I’m festering this common ground between us , a sort of a secret joke that only we’re in on … it creates camaraderie , and borows favour which I can then leverage.

     

    public-humiliation-roostter-femdom“Want to annoy them?” I asked bluntly but with a wicked smile and a wet lick of my lips.

    “How?” he shrugged.

    “I want you to oder a drink by pressing the button … but I want you to press it multiple times so that it makes the sound of a rooster … and make sure to hold it an extra second at the end so the ‘doooo’ lingers.

    Warning , he sat back  in his chair and thus distancing himself a bit from me as he was taken aback from my request.  Not a good sign but easily correctable.

    “You’re aware of what a rooster sounds like , yes?”

    “Yes, I’m aware.”

    “And you want to give those girls something new to talk about don’t you?

    “Yes” he said with a smile and more importantly began leaning back in towards me.

    “And you’re aware I’m your Mistress , and I just gave you an order, yes?”

    “Yes Mistress.”

    Get a man to say yes enough times , and he’ll say yes to anything eventually.  Go on , try to remember that one for your next session with me , doesn’t matter.  I use that technique delicately, and it flies so far under the radar that you won’t even be aware I’m using  it in you until it’s too late.

    Then he did it.

    He seized the button with his left hand and fuck I’ll be dammed if he didn’t message out the best ‘cock – a – doodle – do” waitress summoning call that restaurant has ever heard.

    “Again, do it again.”

    And so he did.  “cock – a – doodle – doooooooooo”.

    The staff weren’t impressed.  Neither were any of the foursome sitting next to us.  Boogle talks had broken down instantly.

    Yes it was a childish thing to do.  But I don’t really care one iotta about acceptable social mannerisms , I care only that my slave and I had established a shared joke , one that I was about to leverage to my benefit later on.

     

    public-humiliattion-bondageSo fast forward to later that night back in April , I had him tied to my bed via his hands being attached delicately to my ceiling fan as he kneeled in front of me on my bed.  It was a love tap ballbusting tease & deny session … strange huh?

    Wtf kind of session is that you’re wondering, yes?

    It’s much like the video you see on the ballbusting tab of this website’s front page.

    I get you in a helpless position where your hands can’t come to save your balls since that’s every guy’s initial bodily reaction to getting hit there.  Then instead of pounding your nuts senselessly , I coerce them into getting nice and tight for me by teasing your dick with either my hand or foot.

    Then with your dick at full mast and your balls achingly tight I sit back and laugh at you on the precipice of orgasm , only to shatter your dreams with little love tap kicks to your balls.

    Normally I’d get a guy to count the taps , usually making him reach 10 before resuming the teasing portion of his torture ; but in that particular case I had the opportunity to establish the ‘cock – a – doodle -do’ sound as something particular to our Mistress – Slave relationship.

    Sure enough, after every love tap he’d coo out ‘Cock – A – Doodle – Do Mistress.”

    “ooooooo , I want to hear more oooooo at the end , again …”   Whack.

    “Cock – a – doodle – dooooooo Mistress.”   Whack.

    And so on , and so on.

    Point being, he now knew that when I wanted to be pleased, ‘cock – a – doodle – do’ was his go-to reply.

    Is the escalator thing here in Athens beginning to take shape?  Good.  I’m glad you’re following along.

     

    For at that particular moment when he saw I caught him gawking at the Greek goddess on the escalator , he knew he had erred.

    I have a very noticeable “don’t fuck with me look” that’s equally frightening to men as it is sexy.  As I held his chin up with one finger for all to see , it was that look which I threw his way.

    Our eyes met , and the experiecnce of ten prior sessions and 6 long days here in Athens passed silently between us.

    Time passed, perhaps a few seconds of this deafening silence , and I simply moved my lips within an inch of his and while raising his chin forcefully higher with my finger I whispered only “say it …. now.”

    And thus the ‘cock – a – doodle – doooooo’ cry of his on the lift , inspired by the tug of the string invisibly attached to his cock.

     

    public-humiliation-holding-chin-dominanceThe Mall (yup that’s what it’s called, the Greek’s aren’t too inventive when it comes to naming things) stood still , literally.  Especially the bank security guard standing his post inside the bank at the botttom of the escalator.

    His eyes met mine and in response I lifted my slave’s chin even higher so that he was almost forced to stand lightly on his tippy-toes.

    Then at the bottom of the lift I walked him like that, with my finger under his chin , much like one would pull an animal walking behind her on a leash.

    See, the humiliation doesn’t have to be grand.  The rooser call , meh , uneeded but funny to be sure.

    For the slave it’s being walked like an animal , forced to shuffle on one’s toes through a crowded mall in Athens, Greece , knowing everybody is gawking at him.

    A perfect slice of humiliation comes from giving up total control to one’s Mistress , but what’s unknown is the footwork that needs to be done over many sessions to reach that point of utter control over a man.

     

    Getting a man to say – walk like a dog for public humiliation – down a busy street in one’s city is not only excessive , but wholly unnecessary. (in my city, public humiliation of that sort will get you arrested!)

    The same amount of public humiliation juice  can be extracted by a simple finger under the chin.  Not to mention it’s a much more reasonable thing to do when out and about.

    There’s been a total transference of power , the slave feels the public humiliation he’s been craving , and thus in debt to his Mistress for making him feel that way as per his wishes.

    Subtelty , my friends.

    When the mind fuck is that thorough , and that deep , all that is needed is a subtle suggestion to push the slave (or Singaporean businessman) over the edge.

    … and that’s something you can’t Boogle , you just have to know how to control men – as perfectly as I do.

     

    Looking for public humiliation this deep?  My “Mistress’s Girlfriend Experience” is all about this kind of involved public humiliation , but I’ll be back in Bangkok next week on the 20th , book a subtle public humiliation for yourself once I’m there.

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    # public humiliation , Twitter.  ( … cuz my SEO is forcing me to add the word public humiliation 3 more times before I can post this.  Grrrr)

     

     

    xx

     

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  • Calling His GF Calls His Bluff

    Calling His GF Calls His Bluff

    [dropcap style=”dropcap3″]L[/dropcap] est you think all my sessions are flawlessly great I’m gonna tell you straight up about a session I had last night that didn’t end well.  I’m writing it so you will get a better idea of what my expectations were of him and what my reaction might be when someone falls miserably short of following through what they said they would do.sessions

    Again, to go over the math of why the onus is upon you to please me initially, if we consider that a month has 30 days on average and that I’m gonna take a day off a week that leaves 25 working days each month where I can book a maximum of 2 sessions a day.   That’s 50 sessions a month proving contrary to popular belief a Thai chick can multiply.  In those 50 sessions I’m looking for not only men that are intellectually stimulating but also ones who present session ideas to me that engage my imagination and make me excited enough to sit down and answer with a 15 minute long email.

     

    The guy i agreed to see yesterday was one of those guys who wrote out his ideas well enough but even then with 52 sessions to send to my recycle bin I was on the fence to see him or not until I read the thing about involving his girlfriend in the email :

     

    [framed_box width=”760px” bgColor=”rgba(242,225,207,1)” borderColor=”#c0af9d” textColor=”#626477″ rounded=”true” align=”center”]I like Role Play – I like the movie: “The Story of O” (1975) The play: if possible, you visit me in my hotel (4-5 stars) as a friend – you wear office dress – under dress lingerie (black) stockings (black) – red lips and red finger nails – high hill shoes – – – you let me drink two glasses wine – you try to turn me sexually on – i get horny – you want sex – i refuse – you try harder – i refuse – you get angry and horny – you tie me up – i refuse sex – you spank me – and then you discover that spanking me gives YOU pleasure – so you spank me until YOU COME – – – maybe – while spanking – you let me call my gf – and she can listen to my suffering – – – the whole game is sensual – I am NOT into hard spanking – sensual play – – -I don’t want sex AND I don;t want to come at this session…. after “you come” – – you let me drink 2 more glasses of wine….. (That’s the play) What do you think??? [/framed_box]

     

    I asked somebody this week what he thought about me when we first met and he replied

    “You like the subtle domination of getting people to do what you want vs the overt.”

    …which is exactly true.  The session immediately interested me because seducing this guy to the point where I could call his girlfriend and he wouldn’t care was damn sexy.  I had the idea running through my head of calling this girl and planting a seed in her mind by saying,

    “I’m gonna send your boyfriend home to you without making him cum so he won’t have technically cheated on you, that’ll happen when you finish him off and he’s thinking it was me doing it.”

    So even though he was asking for a 10pm session right after my very tiring Salsa dance class and that I had to do a rare session in his hotel which wasn’t anywhere close to dance class I still took the session to do this fantasy together with him.

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    An hour into the session I had him eating out of the palm of my hand.  Sixty year old guys always bend the knee before me and this guy I didn’t find particularly challenging , as slaves go he was about as interesting as a mural of white paint yet I was just seducing away biding my time ’til I had him bound to the bed and could reach for his phone.

    It’s when I had his phone in my hand that things got interesting as he wasn’t all to keen on having me call his girlfriend after all.  Really?  Imagine that.  Didn’t take me long to find his two most frequently called numbers, both with girls faces as the contact photo and as I threatened to call the first one he started crying out “NO” more times than a hooker giving up backdoor service does.

    He gave me permission to call “the other one” that lives in Bangkok.  Ah, his prostitute girlfriend.  No, I don’t want to call someone with an IQ lower than a glass of water, I want to call the other one, the REAL girlfriend who no doubt has given her approval for him to dip his dick anywhere he wishes.

    added to goddess's collectionWell that’s what I wanted to find out anyways, but he vehemently disapproved.

    So I just said “look, if you’re not gonna follow through on your fantasy, something that you wrote and then re-confirmed in a later email then we’re done with the session.”  Cuz if he wasn’t gonna allow me to call her then that’s just like taking a girl to the circus but not letting her kick the clowns in the balls … what’s the point of having the session if there’s nothing in it for me.  So you know, a minute later I had hopped off him and was dressing to go when he challenged me on my decision saying I had no idea how to run my business if I’m just leaving abruptly like that.

    I told him no I disagree and that I am quite certain I do know how to run this business to which he replied “well when you’re still doing this in 10 years you’ll know you’ve failed” causing me to snap back “well you won’t be alive in 10 years to know so it’s all good”

    As he paid me the session fee he made a point to mention that the money means nothing to a man of his wealth and I made it quite clear that his money was as equally insignificant to me.

    Well that turned bitter really fast.  There were hunky men on the Spartacus dvd waiting for me back home, I didn’t need to engage in a pissing contest with a guy who looked like a Chinese Shar-Pei dog.

    Session sucked.  Meh, no big deal, I’m just saddened his girlfriend will never know how close she came to having an unstoppable seed of doubt planted permanently in her head.  Sad.

     

    Jaa2 xx

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  • French PickUp Artist Humiliated

    French PickUp Artist Humiliated

    My t-shirts should all say “Warning, BDSM Mistress, handle with care.”

    The stereotype of Thai girls is that we’re all easy to get into bed, just hint that you have money behind some decent looks and an hour later you’ll be balls deep inside one of us back in your hotel room.   For the most part that’s true, 90% of every girl you see here has a hidden price tag and can be bought from the bargain basement price that a hot restaurant waitress would go for up to the very expensive price you’d pay to take a car show model home with you.  The other 10% are hi-so girls and would rather be found dead than be seen with a foreigner.

    Then there’s me, the .0001% of Thai girls that you can’t buy, and no sweet words carry enough magic to make me open my legs.   To get me it actually takes wit, intelligence and a certain ‘je ne sais quoi’ that makes you desireable.  It’s thrilling to meet a man like that.  A little bit handsome, well dressed, nice fragrance and the rare ability to think with the brain on his shoulders and not the one between his legs.  The problem is that i’m swimming upriver trying to find a man like that given the stereotype of Thai girls.

    As such, I have to always assume that the guy is scumbag looking for a quick fuck, masking his personality behind some sweet words and a quick lunch that would impress the mindless moronic masses of women here, but not me.

    The other day I found myself at Terminal 21 once again for a mid afternoon lunch and being quite aware of what’s going on around me, I noticed that a guy had quickly made his way up the very long escalator ride to the third floor but had stopped just behind me unwilling to pass further.  He followed me up to the fourth floor as well and it was there that he placed his hand on my shoulder to introduce himself to me.

    A french man, young, 30’ish, with a handsome face and a charming smile was begging me to have lunch with him.  I admire men who have the courage to introduce themselves to me out of the blue and I gave him the chance to dine with me.

    The vast majority of men, I find to be very attractive, until of course they speak.  Most men last 15 minutes with me before their mouth seals their fate with me.  It took him a bit longer to fuck up because we were talking in our second language and his vocabulary was as bad as, like, whatever.  So was mine.   I was straining to understand his accent.

    Mistress Jaa2:  What would happen if I told you I want to slap your face right here?

    You can follow along , this video matches the dialogue below, I recorded him as we sat and ate so you could see for yourself how most of these conversations go when a suave foreigner runs head first into a Thai Mistress not having the slightest clue who he’s dealing with lol…

     

    Mistress Jaa : Why do you want me?

    Everything you speak, I love it.  The voice for me is marvelous.

    Mistress Jaa :  And why do you follow me from the escalator?

    You don’t understand why I am following?

    Mistress Jaa :  No

    (correctement?) When I see somebody , i have to get close, because I see what I desire.  And you why do you look me so bad?  (I thought he said ‘i love when you look at me so bad’)

    Mistress Jaa :  So you love when I look at you so bad?

    Oh la la la , very excited.

    Mistress Jaa :  You get excited by that?

    Yes the more difficult it is the more I love it.

    Mistress Jaa :  So the more difficult it is the more you love it, so how about if I kick you?

    I love this.

    Mistress Jaa :  You sure you love it?

    Not kick.  Not violent.  Strong.  Strong, only this.  Not violent, because if you not violent to me i’m not violent to you.

    Mistress Jaa :  You say you’re gonna take care of me , what do you mean? (It was the first thing he had said at the escalator, ‘let me take care of you, anything you want’)

    What does it mean take care?  Me, I have money.  Many women try me for money (I think that’s what he said)

    Mistress Jaa :  How about if I said I don’t need your money.

    You say already you don’t need money,  I tell you, why you speak like this?  I don’t know.  Alors, let me make you happy, let me take you shopping.  Or let me make you happy if you don’t want my money.  You’ll be my supermodel.

    Mistress Jaa :  Supermodel?  Sounds good.

    My money cannot buy you, but my money can make you happy.  Can make you a gentle
    man can make you sweet … (hard to understand the last part of what he said)

    Mistress Jaa :  So how can you make me happy right now? (Because 99% of men are words with no actions)

    Now?  Alors, now , uhm, you like ice cream?

    Mistress Jaa :  What?

    You like ice cream someplace else?

    Mistress Jaa :  Say again?

    You like ice cream someplace else?

    Mistress Jaa :  Yes.

    Yes?

    Mistress Jaa :  But I want to eat here. (The male eats where and when his mistress chooses.)

    Here is no good.

    Mistress Jaa :  Why?

    But you want tea or coffee no?

    Mistress Jaa :  Yes.

    So I can order …

    Mistress Jaa :  Order what?  You’re gonna pay for that?

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    Mistress Jaa :  Cool.  It’s ok, order here.

    You think I’m gonna come and let you pay?  No when I sit with someone I pay. (Yes I know you will)

    Mistress Jaa :  Good.  Then ok, I will order here.

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    Do you think when I stay with you I pay myself and not pay for you?  No it is not my style. (He’s trying to win me by describing what is his duty in the first place lol)

    Mistress Jaa :  Good.

    I don’t let you pay yourself. (He has given himself hero status by this amazing gesture.)

    Mistress Jaa :  Good

    Aiiiy, you make me crazy.   If we can go back I go kiss you long time.  (And there it is, the dick couldn’t take it any longer, it had to interject.)

    Mistress Jaa :  And why you think I want to be your girlfriend?  It doesn’t make sense you just met me one hour”  (before I can say ago he puts his finger to my mouth to make me be silent)

    I tell you true, if I am no scared of you I go kiss you long time ago.  You understand? (Gives you an idea of how easily this guy gets girls back to his hotel in the past)

    Mistress Jaa :  You think I’m gonna let you kiss me here?

    No if I do you will boxing me but I will tell you true, I will try because you make me crazy.  True.

    Mistress Jaa :  And then what?

    You are the first woman, listen to me, to make me crazy like this, you make me tops in this, you make me excited a lot. (Most men have no idea how to handle this desire, this urge I create inside them by being desirable but unattainable)

    Mistress Jaa :  What would happen if I told you I want to slap your face right here?  (He physically pulls back from me immediately after I say that, he had been leaning closer and closer into my personal space)

    No.  Slap me no no.  I hate to be.  (The confusion in both his voice and his body language is suddenly hilarious to me, I shocked him to his core with that.)

    Mistress Jaa :  I want to slap you here. (At this point I hold him by his chin with my left hand and pull him to me.  The tables around us stop to stare and he notices.)

    No

    Mistress Jaa :  Yes  (I raise my right hand to face slap him)

    No

    Mistress Jaa :  Yes, yes, yes, yes.  (He moves left and right to pull himself away from my hold on his chin.  Then he sits there looking at me with the lust of a dog in heat.)

    This make me crazy.  Now listen me I tell you true, I slap my bone for women , I speak true.  (His dick is about to take over his brain, I can feel it, it’s seconds away at most.)

    Mistress Jaa :  But not all women are the same.

    Mistress Jaa :  I’m not those women, you can pay money and i’m gonna fuck you.

    Just keep it sexy.

    Mistress Jaa :  I tell you now.  I don’t care your fucking money because I can make that money in two hours.

    No you can do but you won’t I know baby.

    (And now he tries to slip money into my hand secretly as a payment for what he really wants, probably because he can feel he has lost all power in the conversation and even fears at being struck in public.  Thus, the primitive male brain when stripped of its false layers of confidence resort to what is left when being absent of any remaining ego … they try to pay for sex.  Because in the end, it is the man who chases the pussy, not the other way around.)

    Mistress Jaa :  Yes but then why you offer me money?

    Are you not understand again?

    Mistress Jaa :  I don’t understand.  It sounds stupid.

    No?  I am stupid?

    Mistress Jaa :  Huh?

    I am stupid?

    Mistress Jaa :  Ya.  Maybe.

    I choose to like you.

    (Can you hear it in his voice?  The sound of failure.  At this point he was as lame as a duck. Not the metaphorical lame duck, either, but a real duck that was actually lame, maybe from stepping on a land mine or something.)

    Mistress Jaa :  Really?  If you want to fuck some girl you go to Cowboy or Nana.

    No no no , i never go to (Soi) Cowboy and fuck a prostitute.  I offer you, I speak to you, because I like you.

    Mistress Jaa :  The problem is ; I don’t like you , that’s it.

     

    I stood up and left him speechless at the table while his dick brain retreated into his balls as a turtle’s head would disappear into its shell.  The only thing left for his money to buy was my part of the bill I left him with.

    Jaa2 xx

     

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  • Domination | The Psychology Of

    As I write this, there is a guy getting more psychological domination than he bargained for, and it’s because he knowingly was in on a scheme to trick me.  He … well he is getting exactly what he asked for :

    I prefer more of a humiliation and psychological domination , embarrassment, etc.

    And she, his Hong Kong mistress is gonna get a taste of her own blackmail so i’m gonna let the psychological domination that he so desperately wanted continue on for a few more hours, and he can buy a new ticket and fly home whenever we decide to release him.  A bit too extreme?  Ya maybe, but i have one hell of an imagination and when it’s unleashed on someone who betrayed my trust, the consequences are on the outer edge of psychological domination .

     

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    So let’s start off with his fantasy.  He innocently stated that he has a common fantasy, maybe not in the top 3 but definitely in the top 10 of all fantasies asked for which is :

    I’m not sure if you would be open to an idea… but…. One of the things that I thought that we could do in the three hours, keeping in mind that I’m looking for humiliation and degradation, is to pick up a girl in one of the bars and I would take her back to the hotel (you would either join me to get her or i can get her and get to the hotel about the same time as you) but you would not let me have sex with her instead you would humiliate me by making me do things while she watches in disbelief.

    Doable but not easily though.  Bar girls are interested in one thing and one thing only – turnover, and no not pies – how fast she can get you to cum so she can go.  Hanging around and watching me make a guy do something in “disbelief” isn’t her thing and anyways, and saying a hooker stares in disbelief at sex is like saying you stared in disbelief at a fat kid eating a bucket of KFC. ( Now if the KFC had a fried rat instead of chicken … ok maybe i’ll allow you a bit of disbelief on your face. )

    Now here’s where I find the psychological domination is being played on me by his Hong Kong mistress.  I met him at Ploen Chit bts Skytrain station and as I’m on the way I send an sms to him saying I’m 5 mins away to which I get the reply “he is there”.  Either this guy talks about himself in the third person and goes by the name of 2pac , 50 cent, or Prince … then I’ve been talking to somebody else.

    Or have I?

    You see, imagine a scale perfectly balanced and that would represent 50% of all relationships that are vanilla.  Most of the other 50% who are interested in following their fantasies a bit more are looking for a scale that is slightly off balance to one side or the other and those are the types who come to see me.  Beyond that there’s about 10% of the population left, of which 8% are looking for the “s&m” part of bdsm where they really enjoy enduring pain.

    Leaving us with the last 2% who are desperately looking for the scale that is completely unbalanced to the side furthest away from them.  Unattainable.  Their fantasies are so strange and so bizarre that there is almost nobody in the world who is far enough on the other side of that fantasy to give them what they want.

    My first example of this was in a session with one of the original Mistress Jaa’s German customers a few years back when I had just met her.  The guy was nice enough, he brought me coffee and chocolate and brought Jaa some spanking toys as he was very very much into heavy spanking , especially face slapping.  She often made me summarize super long emails that went on for pages about what every corner of the guys mind is hiding and desiring and this guy was even too much for me to read.  On and on he went in how to face slap, the proper form, correct tempo of the slaps, the upsetting of the rhythm, how to be unpredictable in which side to slap, and an essay on the difference between slaps with leather gloves, skin and latex.

     

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    But as much as he wrote about his face slapping knowledge, he wrote even more about how dangerous it was for him to come see Jaa for if his Cambodian village Mistress found out he had betrayed her that his life would be over.  She would blackmail him to the point that he would have no choice but to live his life in her shack serving her forever because she would be chaining him to the pipes.  He would beg over and over to not reveal his real identity for fear that she would find out.

    In Thai we say “guanteen” when reading something like that … or “wurrr” both of which suggest “way too fucking much” … or the total tipping of the scale to the far side.  The session went off fine, he was completely normal and even maybe over polite if I had to fault him with something and not once did he talk about his Cambodian girl.  In fact, he was heading back to Germany a few days after the session and agreed to meet us the next day which was a Sunday saying he may even come back for a Monday session as well before flying on the Tuesday.

    We didn’t hear from him until Wednesday when she got an email that said something like “this is the last email i’ll ever be able to write , as I feared she has found me out and has kidnapped me and taken me back to her country.  She has all my id, my money and most importantly my address and wife’s phone number which she will use to destroy my marriage if I don’t obey her.”

    You know, the obvious thing I wanted to say back to him was “wouldn’t never going home again put a strain on your relationship with your wife anyways?” … but it was her email and her guy to do with as she wanted so I didn’t bother saying anything.

    What I learned though is that guys will go so far to realize a fantasy that is so hard to get that they will fully imagine it and try to play it out exactly how they see it in the brain.

    domination | hong kong mistressThat’s what the guy I was meeting last week was up to i was sure of it, right from how he acted all in a panic when I met him.  He started by telling me that he had been forced to meet me at the station by his Hong Kong mistress and that she had forbid him to have sex for many years but she wanted to tease him by making him get a whore and then have me not allow him to have sex with her.

    He was to do anything I asked of him but to please please please not let him have sex with the prostitute or his Mistress in HK would punish him so much that his life would be in danger.

    Fuck .. guanteen … wuur.

    Look i’m nice, 99% of my sessions are very sexy seductive teases where I get you to go out of your mind with desire and then use that playfully against you.  It’s the 1% you have to be careful about and the only people who get to see that 1% are the people who betray me and the people who play games with me.  Right Bruce?  Don’t worry babe, only 1002 days left until you can see her again.

    “Those girls won’t stay, they’re professional the ones at Nana , we have to go further away” I said to him totally aware that I was sounding like the girls in the movie Hostel, but hey my whole idea was Hostel’ish so it had to be said.

    In the taxi I called Mistress Wael and made arrangements with her in Thai.

    Mistress Wael is a Chiang Rai girl, poorest of the poor and until I met her was trying to live on 500 baht a day as a cook and had a second job doing massage on her day off to make enough money to survive the month.  She’s still my Jr.Mistress in training but think that when you pay her 4,000 for the amazing session she does that she once had to work all week 12 hours a day for the same amount.

    So when she made 12,000 baht a month and had to send 5,000 of that back to family it left her with 7,000 to survive on, and so her place that she lived was 1,000 a month.  You can close your eyesdomination | thai slum and think what kind of hole of a place you get for only 1k a month and then think in what kind of dark dingy soi that place must be.  She lives at my condo now, but that creepy scary place that is no bigger than a normal bathroom in your country she still keeps.  I think she still thinks you guys are lying to her when you say her sessions are great and she’ll wake up and have to go back to living in a place like that.  I wouldn’t let that happen even if it did, but it won’t, she’s great and getting better and sexier every month as she finds her true self.

    Anyways, the point is , her spooky place was available, and it was time to do some psychological domination  of my own.

    If you don’t already know, i’m a horror geek.  I stay up all night every night watching any horror movie I can get at the market mostly because I’m lonely and by myself all the time and partly because it lets me escape my sister who sleeps in her mountain of filth on the other side of the room.  It takes a lot to scare me since I’ve seen so many movies and the only ones that do scare the hell out of me are the ones where I don’t see whatever is bad in the movie because they don’t show it.

    Like somebody told me “IT” is the scariest movie they ever saw and I just had to see it.  Well, if that movie was scary, either he saw it when he was … oh … 5 and hasn’t seen it since, or … that’s the only movie he’s ever seen.  It’s not scary.  Why?  Because I see the clown.  It’s a fu**ing clown.  Now the guy who told me to see IT was British and I think all Brit’s (especially one i know) have a pussy between their legs be they male or female, cuz clowns scare everyone in England it seems.

    The less you see, the less you are told what’s going on, the more scary the situation is , whether it’s a movie or it’s a guy being driven to a broken down building on a side soi off of a side soi at 10pm at night.  Get my point?

    I didn’t think he’d come up to the room, but I hadn’t told Wael what was in my mind and she was smiling and polite so it fooled him enough to make him follow us inside.

    The security at her place was a drunk guy slouched over his 2 foot high white plastic chair and 20 bottles of Chang beer at his feet which we walked past without disturbing him from his sleep and not even the thick grey door that moaned when I slid it open after Wael unlocked it woke the security guy.   The hallway was lit with small fluorescent lights that were far apart enough that we were walking from dim light to darkness and back again as we walked down the cracked walled hallway to the stairs.  The walk up to the fourth floor got more and more narrow at the top and we had to duck to not hit our heads on the concrete of the next flight of stairs.

    His intuition finally kicked in when Wael opened the door to her little rectangular room that would fit 6 bathtubs side by side and end to end at most.  He only stuck his head in and didn’t want to proceed at all.

    Fine.  We left him there and I had to pull Wael’s hand to do so because she felt sad I think that he didn’t want to go into the place she called home for the past year.  So standing outside the room, what were his options?  To walk back to the main road.  Ya he could have, 10 minute walk would get him to Sukhumvit and the BTS , i don’t think he wanted to make that walk alone though.  He was scared, the psychological domination he and his chick had over me was now my psychological domination over him i’d say at that moment.

    thai toilet domination“Go shower” I told him and Wael opened the door to the box sized room with our Thai toilet and the brown bucket she used to scoop water onto herself when she once showered there.

    “In there?” he asked.

    “Ya why, it’s Thai, I showered like that since I was a baby, welcome to how 90% of us live.”

    He stripped slowly looking for a place to hang his clothes and ended up giving them to me to fold.   We closed the door and let him do what we asked him to do … while we quietly left the room and went down to the street again.  At the end of the soi there’s a small shack that sells things and was still open so we went there so I could tell Wael what was going on.

    It’s about perspective.  To a 5 year old Mickey Mouse is a 10 foot rat.  I explained to Wael that he will either leave the room pissed off and mad , which is fine.  Or, he’s shit scared and won’t be coming out until morning.

    “If he calls a taxi?” she asked and I said “not without this he won’t” showing her the mobile phone I borrowed from his pants as I had folded them.

    Twenty minutes and two green tea’s later he still hadn’t left the condo.  I think it was beyond psychological domination  now, I’m sure he was up there thinking he was in a Thai sequel of the Hostel movies.  We waited another 10 and went back to finish the game I was playing.

    When we got to the 4th floor again he was sitting on the steps outside the room with his purple striped shirt unbuttoned and smoking what looked like his second cigarette since at his foot was the butt of his first.

    “My phone” he said holding out his hand.

    “Admit to me first that there is no Hong Kong mistress.”

    “Yes there’s no HK mistress is that what you want to hear , give me my phone.”

    “Why, don’t you want me to make you do all kinds of things to Mistress Wael so she can stare in disbelief?” I laughed getting the words out.

    He didn’t answer, he just took the phone I was holding out in my palm and hurried down the stairs to leave the building.

    No harm done.  Wael learned a bit more about psychological domination and how to play with a guys mind, I learned … hmm … maybe to just keep heading for home if something smells fishy, and he learned … nothing.

    Why nothing?

    Because the next day I got an email from his Hong Kong Mistress apologizing and saying how i’m just a professional mistress and that I wouldn’t be able to understand the psychological domination that she was performing on him since i’m only in it for the money.  As punishment for allowing me to do that to him she …

    Did not let him in bed last night, and may not do for a while. I put a sheet on the floor and sprinkled rice on it. That is where he spent the night with his own underwear in his mouth. He was a mess when I woke up. Today his task is to buy a chastity device, which I never thought we would need, but now I think it is the only way. Until now he simply was not allowed to touch with his hands he penis when it us hard but could creatively get himself off and luck up all the mess. He is horrified, that now he can not even dry hump pillows or the couch to get himself off. A whole new chapter begins… So in a way… I thank you. Had it not been for you, we would not have gotten here. And I think I am going to like it…. Take care, Viv 

    Interestingly, the email was sent from Bangkok.

    For us who live on either side of the slightly unbalanced scale, Bangkok is in Thailand, but for those living on the lopsided scale I guess it’s possible to convince oneself that we’re actually from Hong Kong.  haha 🙂

    Jaa xx

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