Here’s why the video below is the best 13 minutes of Tease & Denial you’ll ever see … it’s kind of super hot – like you’ll know as you’re watching it that it really hits a ‘hardly ever seen something so genuine and yet so erotic’ nerve. However, that’s not what I’m inspired to write about.
Nope, I’m inspired to write about two things … one being a really funny backstory to the video but I’m so embarrassed to tell you that I’ll put it in the ppv Patreon section with the video itself and that’s because this word I’m going to share with you … became such an inside joke because it was used in over five thousand femdom sessions and I’ve never once shared to anyone – though many have asked – what the fuck does the word mean … why do I say it so often … and where did the idea to use it come from. The answers to those questions … plus a test on the video which at the very minimum …. 5 of you must combine to answer all questions correctly to unlock the next video in the series.
Yes, femdom homework. You’re welcome.
Ah, but what’s the other thing the video so inspired me to write about … I can hear you tearing out pages of the telephone book waiting to hear my answer. Silly me, there are no telephone books any longer, but you’ll have to have come from an age where there were telephone books in order to answer one of the questions in my test.
I once went to Singapore to do a “Tease You ‘Til You Drop” 24 Tease & Denial marathon … or as long as we could last doing nothing but T&D with my slave tied to the bed. Which meant that I had to keep him from accidentally erupting for uh, I think it was 19 hours before we both simultaneously agreed to end the torturous session. Funny sidenote about that session – there had been so much pre-cum leaking out onto the bed that when we wanted to sleep there was absolutely no part of the bed that wasn’t soaked. So we played rock, paper scissors – I won and slept on the sofa, he slept in his own goo. Why did I even give him a choice? Because I never ever lose at rock, paper scissors – try me sometime with something big on the line.
Sorry I keep sliding off topic but I’m in such a good mood today that my fingers and mind are both racing with good intentions … a well needed mood change as I’ve been through absolute hell with my family since the holiday week started here. Anyways, the only reason that I could do those 19 hours of non-stop Tease & Denial and not be afraid of him orgasming – no matter how much he screamed just like the slave in this video screamed – was because of what I learned from this session.
Which is?
That if I “accidentally” keep touching the sensitive part of the head from time to time – it makes it impossible for the slave to finish and thus, by this one technique alone I can keep him in a state of endless frustration. It’s maddening because you want to yell out “will you – for the love of God – PLEASE stop touching the sensitive part of my head” only, with a towel and my dirty panties shoved down your throat I can’t hear you. Thus, you can only communicate your growing madness by making your body spasm and/or screaming like a madman into said towel.
To make you calm down, working the shaft if re-prioritized, then rubbing a thumb just under the head, that wonderful area that allows the slave to erupt if touched too long … but just before the eruption comes the jerking becomes furious to coax the white stuff up and out only to – oopsy – be stopped in its tracks half-way up because the hand “accidentally” wrapped itself all over the beat red head making the slave lurch off the bed and scream into the towel one octave louder than he did the prior time.
So when you see him convulse and roar into the towel – just know that had this been a 19 hour session – it would indeed become impossible to cum. And that’s because of the power of negative reinforcement. The longer something which produces absolute frustration continues to reaffirm the result – something amazing happens. The brain and body simply give up. Even though the slave in Singapore was able to maintain a full beat red erection for the entire day we were in that hotel going at it … when I untied his hands, for the life of him he couldn’t make himself cum and he took it out by beating the shit out of a poor pillow that the whole room was covered in fake feathers by the time he was done with it. Until I moved out of Bangkok I had one of them in my room, I’d kept it as a memento of the session.
This negative reinforcement training – inspired by the video and my own explorations into how long I could keep a man hard and frustrated – eventually led to a full study on the topic as it piqued my interest something fierce. Ending up in a one-and-a-half-year experiment to see if negative reinforcement training could make a penis permanently flaccid. The answer to that is yes it can, and I’ve written about it extensively elsewhere on my femdom blog.
Ok, ready for 13 minutes of fun? Hope you’re subscribed because – trust me, well worth it.
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