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Ballbusting | Swing and a Miss

Instead of thinking of a clever way to combine a show recommendation , a comment on a session , and a viewpoint into one story that flows together with a common theme and segue’s for all , i’m just going to present the ideas floating around my head in its crudest form. Cleverness be damned, sometimes it’s better to say things quickly and get back to scratching pussy all afternoon. My thanks to the guy who put me onto the best show I’ve seen since Breaking Bad , it’s called Black Mirror and it’s utterly fantastic viewing. Nine years ago my friend fatally spent a great deal of money on his Motorolla Razr “flip phone” which was the greatest thing …

Silent Dignity

Well I got released from the hospital yesterday and I suppose the good news is that the pain has subsided enough that I can focus long enough to type something without passing out.  The bad news then I guess is that the pain I’m in is still excruciating and I’m still bed ridden.  Which obviously means that unless one wanted to come over and stare at this tearful mess that I’ve become for  your two hours of femdom fun – there will be no sessions any time soon.  I’m estimating at least a week , maybe two. What to take away from this experience?  Well, now that I’ve had to spend well over $5,000 in European or American currency this …

The Ralph Wiggum Effect

This is more a bit of friendly advice than a story intended for those who not only want to live here but are going to be raising kids here. Everything the baby hears should be in your mother tongue right from the day it’s born.  No exceptions. If the mom doesn’t speak your language , that’s fine , but make sure the television shows , the books , the YouTube videos and most importantly the school is subjecting your kid to your language 90% of the time. The result?  Well it’s like running a marathon.  Nobody is declared a champion after the first 500 meters and it’s not until the first 5km are over that you start to get some …

A View To a Kill

If you don’t mind , I’m gonna talk about things that are in my thoughts even though they may be the furthest thing from anything to do with femdom.   I get a lot of “your blog’s been quiet” messages and it’s because , well , since my life got invaded last August , it was like a slap in the face about what I should share publicly (fuck i misspell that word every single time) and I decided to keep the blog entries bdsm session related for the most part. But, things are eating at me. Again, sorry to be esoteric , but those in my closed group of friends that I’ve done sessions with will recall the photos …

natalie portman in closer

And so it is Just like you said it would be Life goes easy on me Most of the time And so it is The shorter story No love, no glory No hero in her sky I’m not just going to recommend a movie for you to see, I’m going to implore you to view it for me.  Not because it’s great, which it is.  Certainly not because it’s complex, though indeed it’s complexity is saturated.  Nor does my recommendation come from it’s message, of which there are many by my estimation. No, for the reason that I need you to see the movie Closer is that if you really ever wanted to understand who I truly am , the …

medium is the message

In my last blog story, in referring to Donald Trump running for president, I said “if he’s doing what I hope he’s doing, I’d vote for him because it’s brilliant.”  Since I’ve said that I’ve had a landslide of emails and sms bugging me to elaborate on what I meant by that. Ok, truth be told, 5 of you asked, but I ask … does not 5 rocks falling down a mountain technically qualify as a landslide?  I say it does, and besides I needed justification to write more about it and tell you how it relates to my sessions.  Deep intellectual shit coming, go get some broccoli and munch on it for brain power, you’ll need it if you’re …

Happy Birthday Jaa

Happy Birthday Mistress Jaa No not me , the original one.  Now, it is said that at a certain age it’s no longer polite to mention the person’s age or inquire so it wouldn’t be prudent for me to say what milestone she reached a few hours ago.  However, that’s not to say that I can’t just give out random facts about certain things right?  That’d be kind of like having hotels on Park Place and Board Walk in Monopoly and letting the other people playing think they have a chance to win … it’s kinda sneaky. So, without further adieu : Hmm, what is the only number in the English language who’s letters appear in alphabetical order? Say, going …

opals-girls-best-friend-960

Femdom sessions aren’t the only thing I host here at my condo.  My Muay Thai trainer comes about three times a week and my English adviser comes about twice in that same time frame, so on the days youre little vampire mistress emails you at 1pm in the afternoon and you ask me “what are you doing up when the sun’s up?” , well now you know why.  Out of the two, my English tutor is more blunt telling me outright “it’s shit” when I go over a blog story I’m about to post with him whereas my Muay Thai coach simply smiles and says “it’s ok, you’ll learn.” I prefer it when people are frank with me, it means …

enron thai whore

November 1997 • Enron buys out a partner’s stake in a company called JEDI and sells the stake to a firm it creates, called Chewco, to be run by an Enron officer. Thus begins a complex series of transactions that enable Enron to hide debts. •  A married man’s life seems headed for divorce, but not wanting to go without sex , establishes a relationship with a bar girl on the other side of the world.  Thus begins a complex series of sexual transactions that enable the married man to hide his true life while pretending to carry on a new relationship. February 20, 2001 • A FORTUNE story calls Enron a “largely impenetrable” company that is piling on debt …

valentines day femdom

Today’s the day I get all kinds of nice emails and sms from married men saying the most romantic things to me such as … “I would so take it up the ass for you” “Me, You, Champagne, Lube? ! ” “Happy Valentine’s Day, you make my Willy happy.” “I love you like a fat kid loves cake” “Will you sit on my face and glaze me like a doughnut now that I’ve sent you a card?”   I’ve long since dubbed this day as being Single’s Awareness Day.   You know, the day that celebrate’s the male species inability to commit, made up for by buying an army of teddy bears, chocolates and flowers.  There’s a shelf in my …

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