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perfect-storm

This year has been … promising and yet it feels so fragile. I’m going to share with you some of my thoughts on what I do , our business model , and how things feel so tenuous , and what I’m doing to try and prevent a 2nd covid like period of desolation that may be on the horizon. Writing from the top of my head isn’t always a great idea , I have at any given time so many thoughts dancing around my head with regards to my business, femdom , customer’s behaviors and so on. Let’s see how this goes.     To understand my fears you should know a bit about our business model.  Yes this is …

The Pen & the Sword

I used to be a writer. Check that.  Let me rephrase. I used to have so much fun writing that even though I sucked at it – mightily , it still made me giddy to sit down and write a story. When my creative writing teacher in Australia, Vladimir was his name announced to us on the last day of class that in some shape or form we were all officially “writers” , I smiled.   Couldn’t wait to find some platform to write for , and little did I know that I’d be writing for my own website soon after.   But damn, living in Australia that year was fun.  Hilarious and fun.  Here’s an example just off the top …

boobsies

So my sin , the one that got my Onlyfans cancelled , was to talk about and show photos of the face sitting chair which Mistress Wael ordered and has arrived today. Apparently I was not supposed to mention toys that are not used for vaginal insertion and stimulation.  Go figure that a face sitting chair … one that many guys are going to use every opportunity to vaginally stimulate a pussy with their tongue … got me suspended haha. Whatever. If you think I’m disheartened and defeated by losing my Onlyfans then go back and read one of my best stories called Maybe which tells you that there is no inherent good or bad news , only the possibilities …

cliffs-of-insanity

I learned something these past two years – don’t climb over obstacles , just walk around them. Onlyfans, my bread and butter is banning porn effective October 1st – and it means absolutely nothing to me whatsoever. Yes , to you …. I can see that me saying OF banning porn being nothing to fear is akin to me playing the role of King Arthur and you guys playing the role of Tim the Enchanter …   King Arthur: You got me all worked up! Tim: Well, that’s no ordinary news story King Arthur: Ohh. Tim: That’s the most foul, cruel, and bad-intentioned news you ever set eyes on! Sir Robin: You tit! I soiled my armor I was so …

My Dog Chasing Cars Plan

“I’m not a schemer.  I try to show the schemers how pathetic their attempts to control things really are.” Heath Leger , The Joker in The Dark Knight   I’m trying , not metaphorically but physically , get to the line where he says “look what I did to this city with a few drums of gas and a couple of bullets.” Only for me, my bullets are my videos, 400 of them to be exact … and growing by 5 every three days. I reckon the drums of gas are all the other websites I’m proliferating my video collection to rather than stupidly betting on the OnlyFans horse. In betting terms,  I’m placing free bets on each horse in …

only-thought police-fans

I feel like I’m married to someone I can’t stand , that’s barely tolerable, yet “for the sake of the kids” (you guys) we remain in the relationship. Which is good because I always have a hard time writing blog stories about something fictional and with the dearth of sessions this year I’ve had a hard time coming up with stuff you’d guys find interesting to read. Now that I have something I’m passionate to write about , namely censorship , I’m excited to actually get pen to paper and let my thoughts out.   Let’s be clear about something.   I’m only doing only-thought police-fans because I have to , not because I want to.  It’s a forced marriage.    …

medium is the message

Like I  said in  yesterday’s blog,  sometimes I just don’t  have anything genuinely sexy to write  about because my mind is fixated  on  some  other random  thought … and that I’ve been  hesitant to write about those  kinds of  things because there needs to be a ratio of  70% – 30% kept of sexy stories to my random thoughts. So because I’m  adhering to my promise  of Wael or I  posting  a story every single day until covid’s travel restrictions are lifted  … you’re getting a look at what today’s fixation was instead of  reading something hot and sweaty. I was on the bts skytrain coming back to my  condo  with Mistress Wael at about 6pm this evening and  we …

onlyfans ass

This story is outdated.  I have now moved to loyalfans.   They cunts at OF kicked me off, stole $1000 of my money and all with no warning.  They didn’t like the fact I was writing sexy femdom stories on my blog page. Loyalfans allows all my videos and photos without question.  It’s a better interface.  Should have started with them in the first place.   My OnlyFans site is up and running :  https://onlyfans.com/mistressjaa   .   It’s  $20 / month.   I’m posting multiple times daily.  Plus live online domination.    This story is  going  to explain the how’s and why’s of what I’m trying to provide you and accomplish. That I’m writing again, and posting to onlyfans daily,  means I can …

Adguard-Logo

I posted this because it got me a lifetime subscription to adguard since my blog is so popular and drives so much traffic.  So this is basically just me selling myself as a shill to get the lifetime license. They are good though,   I still use it on all my browsers.   I’ve tried many adblocking apps , none work better than AdGuard AdGuard runs seamlessly in the background and blocks ads without slowing down your system. I highly recommend AdGuard , and it only takes a moment to download and get the AdGuard app up and running. AdGuard not only blocks ads,  but it speeds up website download times, it blocks access to dangerous websites , and will even …

introspection

Who am I? That’s not a rhetorical question for you,  its a self-reflective inquisition of myself. If I look at the bright side of things – and god knows that’s been hard to do this month – I could step back and say that I’m just maturing from the mid 20’s girl I was when I started writing for this site to the “not quite” mid 30’s woman I am now , and with time has come a decade of change that makes me wince at who I was , right up to about a year ago. Now some might say it took this cancer in my chest to bring about change but in truth its been this whole last …

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