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5 Mistress’s Actions that Men Love the Most

Let’s just cut to the chase shall we?  Here , in ascending order are the 5 things men secretly want me to do to them – without having to ask …   #5) Pull them by their Dick It’s funny but true, men want nothing more than to be led around by their dicks.  It’s strange that it’s used in such a frequent derogatory statement “she’s leading you around with your dick in her hand” because if I want to get an instant erection out of a man , be it in my bedroom or on an escalator at the mall , grabbing a handful of cock and walking the man like a poodle behind me causes an erection harder …

Never Cry Wolf

I can’t put my finger on what it is , but here on my 31st birthday what I can say definitively is that I’ve never felt so far removed from the path of life I thought I was on, and that’s made me more depressed than I’ve ever felt before in my life. What I do know is that this is the most fit I’ve ever been , having done two hours every day with my personal trainer for well over a year now , and subsequently this is the hottest I’ve ever looked.  Which in turn means that my sessions, because they’re based on harnessing the natural desires in men when aroused , are as good as they’ve ever …

Functionally Compatible

Well that birthday thing is inevitable , it’s coming again, three weeks out and trying to stop it is as fruitless as tryin’ to stop a black man rushing the buffet table on free Chicken Sundays at Denny’s. I’ve been thinking about the things that have changed in me over this past year , because – I’ve adjusted my mindset more this past year than any other time in my life. Out of all the ways I’ve changed the one that stands out to me the most is my view on being single. I’ve earned it. Like an aimless voyage through space I’ve successfully navigated the marriage maelstrom , and survived the pregnancy nebula , heck I even circumnavigated around …

A Mistress’s Thoughts

Truth be told, I’m fucking exhausted from writing my Kindle book and have neither the patience nor the mental acuity to construct a properly thought out story at the moment.  I’ve put in back to back ten hour writing sessions and have two chapters done so progress is being made.  It’ll be published by the end of the month. So instead, I’m just going to write off the top of my head, most of my thoughts will come from emails I answered today – but I’ll have to rewrite them here for the blog so they come across as a more toned down version of what I had to say privately. So whats first. It’s a hell of a thing …

Game Changer

Let’s talk a little bit about the USA’s war on “sex trafficking” (re: Untaxable Revenue) and how the two storm bow arrows shot through the heart of first Backpage and most recently Craigslist will affect myself and the Female Domination / BDSM community. First … What a cunt move by the cuntiest country in the world. They care as much about stopping sex trafficking as lactose intolerant people care about spinach, let’s be real.  But what’s done is done so where does that leave me? I feel , umm , nervous kind of – like things just got real weird and I’m standing alone.  Kind of like when you’re in an elevator not paying attention and when the door opens …

No Time For Bullshit

While the story I’m working on is almost finished , right now I’m doing email and I thought I’d throw this quickie up because it qualifies under the “what the fuck were you thinking” category. I have no time for bullshit, there’s a dearth of true mistresses in the world and an over-abundance of submissive men, so keep that in mind when making a first impression worthy enough of a reply. Lest you get what this guy got from me …     jaa4u.com | Goddess <[email protected]> 8:03 PM (7 minutes ago) to dtiiresiias You really want me to take an email written by a guy who names himself  Leather Wings with something more than an ounce of seriousness? I’d be more …

Humiliation |  Connor vs Mayweather

Humiliation. That is the only reason to watch the fight this Sunday morning between Conor McGregor and Floyd Mayweather , because the possibility of absolute humiliation exists and carries with it the lubricant that can transform potential chaos into kinetic chaos. Chaos has three prerequisites.   1.  An accelerant (in this case , absolute humiliation)   2. Primal Human Instincts.  3. Absolution For instance if you go back to the Rodney King riots , what was the accelerant?  The police beating of a helpless black individual.  Which begat primal rage , that beast which lays dormant but willing in all of us.  Then released because of absolution , where in that case the shelter of the masses of rioters brought …

Impregnate the Bitch

Come on girl, tell us what you REALLY think !!   … with regards to my time spent in Europe. A great many of you have emailed me this week trying to squeeze a bit more juice out of the lemon, apparently I didn’t talk enough about my true feelings about my summer in Europe.  So many of you are from Europe so it’s understandable why you’re all so curious as to what a foreign Mistress thought about your homeland. Frankly , I bite my tongue a whole hell of a lot when I write for this blog.  If you’ve been reading between the lines in the stories categorized under My Opinion , then you no doubt know that my …

Red Dress Mistress at the Eiffel Tower

I’m wondering , how many Thai girls from the village slums have stood in front of the Mona Lisa at the Louvre and soaked in the brilliance of Leonardo da Vinci’s masterpiece?  By my estimation , there may be 10 of us in the country who would even recognize the name let alone match it with his most famous painting so to answer my own question – i’d say none. It’s not their fault , their naivety is a product of the Logan’s Run philosophy of schooling here where we’re taught “nothing exists outside these walls.”  But let me humor you with a silly dream of mine that I’ve had since I was about six years old. I’ve had this …

Wonder Woman

So my email is overwhelming me with nice folks concerned about what the results of the biopsy were.  I’m ever so pleased to say that although I do have an abnormal cell cluster in my stomach the chances of it becoming cancerous are very small and furthermore, the doctor said with simple treatment the body should be able to get rid of it inside of a year and a half. Upon hearing the news I felt numb , well actually I felt numb the entire day right up until I saw the doctor in her office , but after weeks of expecting the absolute worst sort of news my body took the happy result in stride.  That is until I …

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