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200 Tinder Dates | The Uncontrolled Variable

Last Sunday I finished my 200th Tinder date since January 1st of this year. Some might call that excessive. I call it a thorough examination of  man’s behaviour patterns.   This isn’t going to be a horny ‘grab your dick’ kind of story but rather an interspective of not only how I’ve changed so much this year as a Mistress but also a good snapshot of how my brain is currently wired a fortnight before my 3rd European Femdom Vacation. It’s also surely going to piss a few of the alpha males off who read me on a regular basis.  It’ll definitely leave some with a “who the fuck are you to treat us men like that” kind of taste …

A Girl Like That | Mistress Girlfriend Experience

“It’s just embarrassing, that’s what it is.  I mean, there’s no way a girl should even consider telling me what to do and there’s actaally no way I’d obey.  So listen, I’ll be here when you’re ready to date a real guy, but first … you’ll have to stop being a girl like that.” This, written to me by an ESL teacher who’s chances with me were fading quicker than LeBron James’ hairline having being rebuked in twenty two consecutive emails , is a microcosm of the attitudes pervasive throughout most men looking to date in this city. That he went on to call me a prostitute one sentence later and then ended that email by verbally “leaving the door …

A New Direction

Waiting for a femdom session worthy of a blog post is much like fly fishing where most of the time you’re casting your lure and nothin’ bites , nada, zilch.  You guys would have more fun smelling your ball sack than doin’ what I do day in / day out , however …. Once the line jerks though and the fish is on , oh it’s on like grey poupon … meaning shit’s about to get exciting. Case in point, this story about Joey the Fish – not his real name but close enough for jazz , as it begins with a J and hey it rhymes as well – so figure it out. The fish part is true enough …

Fuck Board | A Mistress’s Sex Tool

Being my Fuck Board is a job you think you’re ready for , but truly you’re not. I was trying to relate to you last story that I perceive a man’s dick to be this wonderful toy that unfortunately comes attached to a man’s body … and with it this misconceived notion that it’s there for a man to pleasure a woman with. It’s there for the woman to use, without regard for any feelings whatsoever. Which could mean that if I’m not particularly horny one month , it doesn’t get used at all.  Which is why I love chastity so much because it teaches the man to remove pleasure from the equation when considering the purpose of his dick.  …

Amok Time

  he ways and rituals of teasing a subject into madness are difficult to master.   Those seeking such require the coaxing of a heretic’s luring voice or a blacksmith’s mighty sword arm if they are to make the crossing. Without tools of iron , I must rely upon flesh … and indefatigable purpose. It’s the timing of my fingers that is imperative.   Without the proper penile brushes at precise intervals the process can fail spectacularly.   For my first attempts at teasing were crude , and the results disappointing. I soon found however that the type and condition of the host’s cock was a factor. The best results came from the proper attention to time.   A month’s absence from …

Moby Dick Attack

Moby dick … Dick Attack …  ya it’s a stretch for such a play on words  … anyways read  on guys, you’ll see where I’m going with this.   jj ul… Feb 14, 2019, 1:41 PM (2 days ago) to me I like Thai lady very much that’s why I stay with my girlfriend more than 10 years allready Unfortunately she don’t like this mistress Slave Play so it’s difficult for me to be 100 Prozent happy in our sexlife but I don’t wanna force her to do it . So I allways happy to see u before I going to see my girlfriend For me you are a real queen and you looking like a model It’s easy for me to …

Bram Stoker’s : Mistress Bratislava

While my grip on the nuances of Female Domination continues to anoint me with  God  like  powers over men , I’ve been simultaneously humbled by something so ridiculously simple : pollution.   So though at times I feel in session like a Level 150 Succubus Queen reigning over men with her Staff of Mesmerization , my +20 to Charisma is nonetheless severely offset by my crippling -12 to Vitality. In  layman’s terms ; as the pollution index in Bangkok pushes towards a cancer inducing 200 on the daily – my severely sensitive skin allergy to dust has led me to some pretty creative decisions lately to escape the smog’s viral claws from sinking into my skin. Since we’re motivated  into action …

Pussy Power , Boob Power

When I was a kid , Marvel and  DC Comic Book heroes had no power that was equivalent to that of the powers which lay inside my pussy.  I suppose that makes  me some sort of a super hero(ine) does it not? Well every  super  hero has an origin story , so here is mine. I grew up in a village some 3 hours outside  of Bangkok , a small town nothing like Gotham City , this town was as unassuming as it was poor.  Still is. Though  I had no possessions I had at one point a dog – a collie in fact – given to me  as a pup by a friend of my aunt who had both …

21 Thoughts

Seemingly for over a month I can’t find it within me to construct a story that’s worth writing let alone reading.   The roots of the problem no doubt can be traced  back to these bouts of self inspection, depression and goal-less-ness that I’ve been plagued with from about October onward ’til now. That’s not to say however that I haven’t  had some great thoughts pass through my mind.  My phone and  my laptop have a notes section which  gets filled with random  thoughts, memories,  recordings and  the occasional video – and it’s from these that in the past , when allowed to  marinade like a good steak in the fridge , produce some fine story lines. So since that hasn’t …

What Hard Work Gives You

Every year I make it a point to try and reinvent myself , to look at my business from a new perspective and to push myself to do things I’m not comfortable with. Some ideas are successful , some not so much – but the point is to throw enough shit at the wall so that eventually something sticks. What’s kept me busy the last month is changing my focus from daily bdsm sessions to bdsm vacations or getaways. Sounds kind of wonderful ya? Well yes and no. It’s certainly helped snap me out of the blandness of my daily routine here in Bangkok. I’ve found that spending time with submissive men as a full time Mistress for durations of …

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