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Post Orgasm Techniques.  To learn from myself I watched all my videos yesterday.   Took all day. And I was mad at myself. “Why in my videos I don’t focus on my post orgasm techniques and instead I just stop filming?” Not  good.   I  have to fix that. Because I focus so much on post-orgasm techniques in every session I do … not only the Tease & Denial sessions. I have so many things I do. So let  me explain to you first – why post-orgasm part of the session is SO important.  And after …  I will explain some of the techniques I use to help  you understand. “Some” not “all” my techniques.  If I write for 1 week I …

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I’m writing for Mistress Wael right from memory of the talk I had with her tonight.   All the credit goes to her for the topic and her “research” , but the words needed to explain her theory are beyond what she’s able to write. At first I asked her  “do you really want me to publish what you’re experimenting with?   Cuz it might scare guys off.” But she showed me email proof that her guys are loving the results – even if it is  totally opposite of what I try to accomplish  in my  own  Tease & Denial sessions. So let me reassure you guys before I begin here –  that normal teasing  sessions  complete with  the volcanic like orgasms …

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Why is my Tease & Denial session not only amazing but so different from anyone else? 4 reasons :  Edging Pre-Session Training  My 3 day rule  Secret Teasing tool nobody else uses  Chastity control So let me explain each.   Edging Pre-Session Training   What I found from 6 years of Teasing is men don’t know how to control their orgasm. That is because 2 things.  Never trained cock muscle to stop cumming.  And no willpower. So hopefully you always book your session with me one week out from the session date.  So I have time to teach you control. I use this Edging Challenge 30 minute video for you to practice controlling your orgasm for 3 days. Your job …

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I want to pleasure you. I want to make you cum. I want to show you how good I am at worshipping you with my tongue. I I I I You see the common denominator here? Those are three copy and paste remarks from my emails to here in this story … and I’ve done so to make a point. That point being … the space between how most men percieve a sexual act and I how I percieve it are so far apart they might as well exist in separate parallel universes. To perhaps give you a better perspective on the subject let me pose this question to you :  Does a gynecologist go home and dream about eating …

Subconsciously Teased

Of all the interesting things that happened last month on my most recent femdom filled European trip , the one that stood out the most happened between sessions whilst I was alone and semi-unconscious on a train.  Which went along with the theme of the trip in general – the theme that can be called “Things that can Happen to You when You’re Passed Out” … for lack of a better title. So since this is a femdom related blog , lets address my latest fetish – one that can only happen on these European trips apparently – because until Thailand grows some tall-ass mountains back home , it’s gonna be hard to replicate here on my home turf. “Mountains …

Bram Stoker’s : Mistress Bratislava

While my grip on the nuances of Female Domination continues to anoint me with  God  like  powers over men , I’ve been simultaneously humbled by something so ridiculously simple : pollution.   So though at times I feel in session like a Level 150 Succubus Queen reigning over men with her Staff of Mesmerization , my +20 to Charisma is nonetheless severely offset by my crippling -12 to Vitality. In  layman’s terms ; as the pollution index in Bangkok pushes towards a cancer inducing 200 on the daily – my severely sensitive skin allergy to dust has led me to some pretty creative decisions lately to escape the smog’s viral claws from sinking into my skin. Since we’re motivated  into action …

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My submissive pet screamed when I finally allowed him to cum after hours of perpetually stroking his dick with my one finger … while Wael’s submissive guy released his cum with nary a whimper earlier last Sunday.  This begat a bigger question , why such a difference in the way men finish when being tortured like this? The answer is in a tiny secret :  oil. Depending on the way we want you to finish the session , we’ll either use baby oil or we won’t , here’s why. Oil reduces friction , and friction is the lubricant men depend upon when looking for a great orgasm.  I’m talking about that rare orgasm you guys get when you shoot an …

Despair  |  A Trap Makers Machination

A moment of valor shines brightest , against the backdrop of despair. Tired of men kicking and thrashing their legs vehemently , I thought long and hard about devising a situation which would create quite a conundrum for the submissive man teased to the brink of insanity and wanting to protest with violent twitching. Hmm , curious is the trap makers art , her efficacy unwitnessed by her own eyes. For in front of me last night , lay bound and gagged , my first victim of such maniacal imaginations.  Men are always curious when I begin to bind them , at first unbelieving that ropes can indeed restrain them wholly , and then perplexed when self witnessed there is …

There is no slow season when it comes to being horny, Tease & Denial is in demand 365 days a year.  That being said , I’m going to take a break for the month of July and pass the majority of my sessions to Mistress Wael.  Those of you “in the loop” know what’s happening in July for me and ya I’m fucking stoked about it , so much so that I’ve become a gym rat since the favorable results of my biopsy in order to look smoking hot for it. That doesn’t mean I haven’t been seeing my fair share of movies as well , I have of course seen every movie being shown at Terminal 21 , and …

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One of my favorite things to do when it comes to Tease & Denial sessions is to work with Wael in a double mistress session that covers both the afternoon and evening , using a method that we call Pre cooking the balls.  Let me explain. To me, there ‘s nothing better than teasing a guy for a full two hours and sending him out my door with no orgasm whatsoever , just a very leaky cock.  The enjoyment comes from the text messages soon thereafter where the test subject will lament the aching gnawing pain in his balls , so much so that at times it’s been reported that walking is even hard to do.  So what the double …

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